While they sat there, little Rory in front of them, trying to decide what toy he wanted to play with, Jeff was quiet, listening to Nick as he spoke. It was definitely a valid concern he had, and Jeff knew that, with Rory's well-being and happiness hanging in the balance, there was no question whatsoever that Nick would do whatever was necessary to protect his son from any pain whatsoever. Rory was his first priority in every way, and that wouldn't stop under any circumstances for any reason. "That makes sense for sure, dude," Jeff said with a small nod. "I mean, Rory obviously means more to you than anything in this world. But on the reverse of that... I mean, there are lots of single parents who end up dating again, and find people who suit them and their family and stuff like that. Maybe if you got out there, you'd realize that there was somebody who'd really fit you guys and be good with everything, and then end up being good for you and Rory in the long run. I mean, you didn't do anything wrong in this, Nicky. And I know you love Rory and love being his dad and looking out for him. And I know that you want to keep him safe and protected. But maybe it would be a good thing for him for you to have someone to talk to for support and stuff. I mean, I can't make that call. Rory's your son, and only you know what's best for him. But maybe it would be good for him to see his dad really be happy with someone? Like I said, though. I know it's not my call... Just... things to think about."
Jeff had to nod wholeheartedly in agreement with that particular sentiment. "I really hope so, too. Lonely's kind of a bitch, I'm not gonna lie. Work is great when you enjoy your job, but it doesn't take the place of all those... Those couple things. Having a great job doesn't make you tea when you had a rough day, or cuddle with you when you just want to cut off the world. But I don't know. I mean, I know that there are people out there who understand what my job is like. Which is really nice, but I just... I guess it all starts with getting out there and getting my date on. Which is the hard part, believe it or not. I get way nervous over asking people out." He laughed a little at that. "I know, that's a pretty epic fail, but it's true."
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Jeff had to nod wholeheartedly in agreement with that particular sentiment. "I really hope so, too. Lonely's kind of a bitch, I'm not gonna lie. Work is great when you enjoy your job, but it doesn't take the place of all those... Those couple things. Having a great job doesn't make you tea when you had a rough day, or cuddle with you when you just want to cut off the world. But I don't know. I mean, I know that there are people out there who understand what my job is like. Which is really nice, but I just... I guess it all starts with getting out there and getting my date on. Which is the hard part, believe it or not. I get way nervous over asking people out." He laughed a little at that. "I know, that's a pretty epic fail, but it's true."